Unless you met your new Sugar Daddy on a specific “arrangement” website where he openly advertised himself as a Sugar Baby, he has no idea that he is one, and so you should treat the subject of money with special care and delicacy.
After a few dates or weekends together, you will have a good idea of how much money he has and how generous he is with this money. He will also know a few things about you, like what your job is, if you have one, where you live, some family details and your hobbies and interests. When approaching the issue of money, you need to let him know that money is not the most important element of the relationship. Buffer sugar daddy ego with talk about how you really enjoy spending time with him and how much you love going to these exciting places, that you really appreciate his wonderful generosity, but tell him that he doesn’t “need” to shower you with gifts. This part is an example of reverse psychology and as soon as you say it, he will respond saying, “but darling, I love showering you with gifts”. This, my friend, is the answer you are looking for!
When receiving money from your Sugar Daddy, you always want him to offer the money. Never ask directly for the cash, because that makes you seem like a gold-digger, and that’s the last thing you want to look like. The other thing you need to do is make sure you never let him know how strapped for cash you are.
On the other hand, if you wait too long, he might never offer any money up to you. There are occasions when it might just be better to come out and ask for the money. This said, if you are going to ask for the money, you should think about asking for a ‘loan’. This makes you seem like less of a gold-digger and chances are he’ll never make you pay the money back and he’ll probably just say, ‘don’t worry about it, Baby’. At least, that’s what you should be hoping for. It will take at least 6-8 months for him to cough up for any big items, and you definitely shouldn’t ask for anything before you have known him for that length of time. Also, you must leave a fair amount of time between each request otherwise it will seem like you are constantly asking for something. The ideal situation for obtaining money from a Sugar Daddy is when you already have a source of income to cover your expenses but you are looking for something extra. Tell him you are in college studying towards a MBA or some other qualification (even better if it is true) and let him know that it is very expensive. Again, don’t let on that you can barely afford to eat. He might offer to help pay your tuition or pay for some other expenses and thus lighten your burden. You could also say that sugar daddy dating in your family is sick and you are having a hard time paying for their healthcare, although it’s easy to get caught out when telling outright lies and he would likely have a moral issue with this kind of fabrication.
Perhaps you have always dreamed of starting your own business. This is the kind of thing your Sugar Daddy will be interested in helping with. Being a businessman himself, he will respect any kind of entrepreneurial initiative that you show and be keen to help out. Obviously, if you are going to accept money to start a business, you need to actually start the business, as he will want to see the fruits of his investment. In return for his money, he might ask for some ownership of your new enterprise. Whether you accept this or not will be up to you, but beware that this ties you to this man, at least on a business level, for at least a few years. This might be something you want to avoid.